Renia (pronounced R-EE-n-a) Carsillo hates business silos and marketing hacks. So, she spends her days working with mid-size and small companies to integrate their business strategy with their impact strategy, design sustainable marketing frameworks, and find a growth cadence that works for their team and their lives. Renia believes founders are uniquely positioned to create a kinder, more equitable world. She is passionate about bringing C-level strategic support to the small and mid-size companies shaping their communities every day. Renia says, "Sustainable marketing is built on a solid business strategy. A solid business strategy is built on values-driven habits. Values-driven habits are built on healed/healing leaders. We can’t do these things separately. They’re all interconnected. ”
The Irreplaceable Art of Human Connection: Places AI Can't Help Your Business, Part 5 [Two on Tuesdays]
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Happy Tuesday, Reader! It's not groundbreaking news at this point, but study after study shows us that digital-first relationships make us less happy and aren't fulfilling in the same ways as face-to-face connections. Despite being more connected than ever, we're in the midst of a loneliness epidemic, and AI tools only exacerbate the problem. This has a real impact on our humanity, which is (spoiler alert) also screwing over our work lives. The solution is simple, if not easy: Get face-to-face with other humans in real-world environments, not just across a screen. Realign with the Human Skill of Relationship Building Social media hasn't been the most effective way to build relationships or market a small business in at least five years (longer, depending on the platform and industry). Yet every single day, I still talk to new businesses and solopreneurs who spend most of their precious sales and marketing time (and sometimes free time, too) feeding the Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook machine. I'm not saying digital media isn't useful or important. But when we have very limited resources, are brand new, and especially when running a community-based business, the most efficient use of our time is almost always IRL relationship building. Here's my hot take: If you can generate it using AI, it's not contributing to relationship building. Think about it. AI can write your social media captions, craft your emails, and even suggest conversation starters. But it cannot…
It’s the season for connection, so get out there. Fall is one of the most event-rich times of year in most areas. Both business-related and community-oriented gatherings are everywhere. It's the perfect time to get out there, whether formally as an event sponsor or host, or informally as the fantastic human that you are.
Earlier this month, we talked about Placebinding™, or the intentional art of rooting into place with the people who've chosen to be there with you. As we fret about the implications of AI for both our businesses and what it means to be human, the most powerful tool available to us all is leaning into uniquely human skills. The most connective and essential skill might just be sitting with another human and giving them that most precious and rare resource: your full and undivided attention. No algorithm can replicate you. No chatbot can substitute for your presence. And no amount of digital connection can replace the irreplaceable experience of being truly seen and heard by another person. Next Steps AI can't build relationships for you, but you can systematize activities that help build them. Learn about our longest-standing and most popular relationship-building support tool, the VIP Scorecard, here. Until next time,
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Renia Carsillo
Renia (pronounced R-EE-n-a) Carsillo hates business silos and marketing hacks. So, she spends her days working with mid-size and small companies to integrate their business strategy with their impact strategy, design sustainable marketing frameworks, and find a growth cadence that works for their team and their lives. Renia believes founders are uniquely positioned to create a kinder, more equitable world. She is passionate about bringing C-level strategic support to the small and mid-size companies shaping their communities every day. Renia says, "Sustainable marketing is built on a solid business strategy. A solid business strategy is built on values-driven habits. Values-driven habits are built on healed/healing leaders. We can’t do these things separately. They’re all interconnected. ”
Why Follow-Through is Still Human Work: Places AI Can't Help Your Business, Part 4 [Two on Tuesdays]
Happy Tuesday, Reader! Today’s AI tools make starting things easier than ever. For example, much has been written about how helpful ChatGPT is at getting from blank page to rough draft for writers. But here's what no algorithm can do for you: the discipline of finishing. There are 99 days left in 2025. We're in that magic momentum cycle where hitting those big goals and leaning into the intentions we set in our planning sessions becomes not just possible, but natural. Realign with the Human...
Happy Tuesday, Reader! We've been exploring where AI shortcuts can actually hurt your business. This week we’re focusing on the hidden cost of making your work too easy. Deep learning and maintaining creative skills require cognitive strain. If we’re not careful, what helps us in the short run (freeing up cognitive load with AI tools) can hurt us in the long run. It's crucial to make thoughtful choices about where the trade-off of short-term ease for long-term skill development is worth it,...
Happy Tuesday, Reader! Much has been written about AI's usefulness for evaluating work quality. But the more we experiment with it, the more we're realizing that quality feedback is still surprisingly difficult to get from a bot, especially for those actively trying to improve their skills. Effective feedback, particularly on creative work, remains inherently human. AI might eventually replicate it, but today it simply doesn't (at least not nearly as well as many believe) Realign with the...